We often build strong beliefs around ourselves—some may have formed in childhood through “human domestication” (as described in The Four Agreements), during our teenage years, or once we entered the workplace.

That’s why, when I invite friends to join me in creating a vision board, I always emphasize: dream about what you truly want—not just what you believe you can realistically achieve.

Limiting beliefs hold us back. Thoughts like “I can’t do that,” “That’s impossible,” “I don’t have enough time,” “I lack the skills,” flood our minds and stop us before we even begin. Sometimes, the limitations are so deeply rooted that even imagining a dream feels impossible. But if we don’t even allow ourselves to picture it, how could it ever become real?

The first step is to recognize that these are just beliefs—not facts.

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I started with a very personal example. Even now, I’m still in the early stages of breaking a limiting belief, but I’ve already been surprised by the outcome.

When I was 4 or 5, my parents signed me up for an aerobics class. After a few days, the teacher told them that my body wasn’t suited for aerobics or dance. My parents believed it, and so did I—for 30 years. They withdrew me from the class, and that story became a part of my childhood narrative, one my parents still remind me of today.

But deep down, I always admired people who could dance. I quietly wished I could dance to just one song in my life. Even during group dances in Category Area Days, I felt awkward and uncomfortable with how my body moved—I believed I would never dance again. It was stressful and discouraging.

Until one quiet Sunday morning, I asked myself: Why not?
Why do I continue to believe what others told me—especially if I’ve never tried again as an adult?

So, I signed up for a dance class. Not just any dance class, but “ancient Chinese dance,” known for its grace, softness, and typically performed by delicate dancers. A challenge, for sure—but I didn’t care. I just wanted to try.

And after a month, something amazing happened:
I realized—I’m not bad at dancing. In fact, I feel joy and calmness in every class. The slow and graceful movements of ancient Chinese dance actually fit me perfectly. One day, the coach even asked if I’d consider becoming a coach myself!

I know I have no interest to become a professional dancer—but that’s not the point. I can dance. And I love dancing. It was only the belief that held me back all this time. Now, I’ve broken it.

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The same applies to my professional career.

For years, I’ve dreamed of working in a product-related role, ideally moving to Sweden to pursue it. But people around me kept building walls:
“You need more experience, 7 or 8 years?”
“You need more networking.”
“Start with this role, then maybe that one later.”

And I listened. I held back from applying, always saving that dream for “the next step.”

But today, I’m choosing to break that belief too. I’ve started applying for the roles I truly want. That is my first step in making the vision real.

Letting go of limiting beliefs—or fears—is essential. Cultivating a positive mindset is a key part of manifesting the life I truly want.

Thank you.